THIS is PSYCHOLOGY - emotional negative patterns and beliefs male/ female - QUOTE SCRAPBOOK

In here I plan to keep a written record of passages I have came across that caught my intention, or that I find are particulary well resumed to the essence varied emotional negative belifs / patterns.

on OPEN RELANTIONSHIPS

. Open relationships enable people to have no responsibility to anybody and to have their cake and eat it. If anybody wants to be open in this way, you’re not in a relationship in a typical sense of the word.

. Engaging in open relationships relies on minimal emotion being involved and there are many
people, especially women who choose to put up with this scenario assuming that something would change.

on EMOTIONAL UNAVAILABLE personality traits

. Unavailables tend to be very routine, very self centred, and very caught up in their own plans,
and this is a classic example of their unwillingness to budge and be available to you properly.

on LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

. He is yet another person who is hedging its bets and also massaging its ego with the knowledge
that there is someone in another area code that ‘needs’ him/ her.

on JUSTIFYING POOR RELATIONSHIP BEHAVIOUR - being emotional UNAVAILABLE

. emotional unavailability, which gives the person GREAT SKILLS at rationalising its poor relationship behaviour, will even mentally separate his virtual activity from his ‘real world’ activity.

on INTERNET DATING and MR. UNAVAILABLES

. Mr Unavailables, whether they are unavailable because they are currently in a relationship or just out of one, or addicted to a substance, or are immature, mentally ill, or whatever their issue is, will be looking for a site where women are quick prey.

They will want access to a lot of women while spending the least time and money - this clearly explains the MR. Emotional Unavailable pattern behaviour of UNGENEROSITY - they will economize to the maximum theyre time and effort, giving little of theyre time, money and or mentally and emotional commitment. They are there to TAKE.